What does the Bible say about being a good father?

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The Bible teaches that a good father reflects God’s own fatherly love by leading his household in faith, showing compassionate care, and disciplining with patience rather than harshness. Ephesians 6:4 and Colossians 3:21 call fathers to nurture children in the Lord without provoking or discouraging them. Proverbs commends wise instruction and rejoices in godly children, while Psalm 103:13 portrays the Lord’s tender compassion as the pattern for paternal care. Fathers are stewards of children, who are God’s gifts (Psalm 127:3-5), and should set their homes toward serving the Lord (Joshua 24:15). Yet their hope is not in flawless performance, but in the grace of the Father who makes believers His beloved children through Christ (1 John 3:1).

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  • Ephesians 6:4

    You fathers, don't provoke your children to wrath, but nurture them in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.

  • Proverbs 22:6

    Train up a child in the way he should go, And when he is old he will not depart from it.

  • Psalms 103:13

    Like a father has compassion on his children, So Yahweh has compassion on those who fear him.

  • Colossians 3:21

    Fathers, don't provoke your children, so that they won't be discouraged.

  • Proverbs 23:24

    The father of the righteous has great joy. Whoever fathers a wise child delights in him.

  • Psalms 127:3-5

    [3] Behold, children are a heritage of Yahweh. The fruit of the womb is his reward. [4] As arrows in the hand of a mighty man, So are the children of youth. [5] Happy is the man who has his quiver full of them. They won't be disappointed when they speak with their enemies in the gate.

  • 1 John 3:1

    Behold, how great a love the Father has bestowed on us, that we should be called children of God! For this cause the world doesn't know us, because it didn't know him.

  • Luke 11:11-12

    [11] "Which of you fathers, if your son asks for bread, will give him a stone? Or if he asks for a fish, he won't give him a snake instead of a fish, will he? [12] Or if he asks for an egg, he won't give him a scorpion, will he?

  • Joshua 24:15

    If it seem evil to you to serve Yahweh, choose you this day whom you will serve; whether the gods which your fathers served that were beyond the River, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land you dwell: but as for me and my house, we will serve Yahweh.

  • Titus 2:1-15

    [1] But say the things which fit sound doctrine, [2] that older men should be temperate, sensible, sober-minded, sound in faith, in love, and in patience: [3] and that older women likewise be reverent in behavior, not slanderers nor enslaved to much wine, teachers of that which is good; [4] that they may train the young women to love their husbands, to love their children, [5] to be sober-minded, chaste, workers at home, kind, being in subjection to their own husbands, that God's word may not be blasphemed. [6] Likewise, exhort the younger men to be sober-minded; [7] in all things showing yourself an example of good works; in your teaching showing integrity, seriousness, incorruptibility, [8] and soundness of speech that can't be condemned; that he who opposes you may be ashamed, having no evil thing to say about us. [9] Exhort servants to be in subjection to their own masters, and to be well-pleasing in all things; not contradicting; [10] not stealing, but showing all good fidelity; that they may adorn the doctrine of God, our Savior, in all things. [11] For the grace of God has appeared, bringing salvation to all men, [12] instructing us to the intent that, denying ungodliness and worldly lusts, we would live soberly, righteously, and godly in this present world; [13] looking for the blessed hope and appearing of the glory of our great God and Savior, Jesus Christ; [14] who gave himself for us, that he might redeem us from all iniquity, and purify for himself a people for his own possession, zealous for good works. [15] Say these things and exhort and reprove with all authority. Let no man despise you.

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