What does the Bible say about conflict resolution?
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The Bible teaches that believers should pursue peace through humility, patient listening, truthful confrontation, forgiveness, and trust in God’s justice. James 1:19 and Proverbs 15:1 commend being slow to anger and answering gently, while Matthew 18:15-17 calls for addressing sin directly and graciously rather than spreading it. Romans 12:17-21 forbids personal vengeance and urges Christians to overcome evil with good. Christ blesses peacemakers in Matthew 5:9 and commands reconciliation as a priority in Matthew 5:24. Philippians 2:4 and Colossians 3:13 call us to consider others, bear with one another, and forgive as the Lord has forgiven us. Peace is not avoidance of truth, but loving restoration under Christ’s rule.
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- Matthew 18:15-17 8 votes
“If your brother sins against you, go, show him his fault between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained back your brother. But if he doesn’t listen, take one or two more with you, that at the mouth of two or three witnesses every word may be established. If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the assembly. If he refuses to hear the assembly also, let him be to you as a Gentile or a tax collector.
- James 1:19 6 votes
So, then, my beloved brothers, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, and slow to anger;
- Proverbs 15:1 5 votes
A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.
- Romans 12:17-21 5 votes
Repay no one evil for evil. Respect what is honorable in the sight of all men. If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men. Don’t seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, “Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.” Therefore “If your enemy is hungry, feed him. If he is thirsty, give him a drink; for in doing so, you will heap coals of fire on his head.” Don’t be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.
- Matthew 5:9 3 votes
Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called children of God.
- Philippians 2:4 3 votes
each of you not just looking to his own things, but each of you also to the things of others.
- Colossians 3:13 3 votes
bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do.
- Luke 17:3 3 votes
Be careful. If your brother sins against you, rebuke him. If he repents, forgive him.
- Proverbs 16:7 2 votes
When a man’s ways please Yahweh, he makes even his enemies to be at peace with him.
- Matthew 5:24 2 votes
leave your gift there before the altar, and go your way. First be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift.
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