What does the Bible say about discipline kids?

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The Bible calls parents to train and correct their children with steadfast love, wise instruction, and self-controlled discipline that points them to the Lord. Ephesians 6:4 and Colossians 3:21 forbid harsh, provoking parenting, while Proverbs commends timely correction as a means of cultivating wisdom and restraining folly. Proverbs 13:24 teaches that loving discipline is not neglect, and Proverbs 29:17 promises the fruit of correction in a child’s growth and a family’s peace. Yet discipline must never be angry retaliation or abuse. Hebrews 12:11 presents godly discipline as painful for a time but intended to yield righteousness, reflecting the Father’s loving care for his children.

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  • Ephesians 6:4 6 votes

    You fathers, don’t provoke your children to wrath, but nurture them in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.

  • Proverbs 13:24 6 votes

    One who spares the rod hates his son, but one who loves him is careful to discipline him.

  • Proverbs 19:18 4 votes

    Discipline your son, for there is hope; don’t be a willing party to his death.

  • Proverbs 29:17 4 votes

    Correct your son, and he will give you peace; yes, he will bring delight to your soul.

  • Proverbs 22:15 4 votes

    Folly is bound up in the heart of a child; the rod of discipline drives it far from him.

  • Proverbs 29:15 3 votes

    The rod of correction gives wisdom, but a child left to himself causes shame to his mother.

  • Proverbs 22:6 3 votes

    Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it.

  • Colossians 3:21 3 votes

    Fathers, don’t provoke your children, so that they won’t be discouraged.

  • Hebrews 12:11 3 votes

    All chastening seems for the present to be not joyous but grievous; yet afterward it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it.

  • Proverbs 12:1 2 votes

    Whoever loves correction loves knowledge, but he who hates reproof is stupid.

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