What does the Bible say about finding a spouse?

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The Bible teaches that marriage is a good gift from God, to be sought with prayerful trust, godly wisdom, and a desire to honor Christ rather than merely satisfy personal longing. Genesis 2:18 and 2:24 present marriage as God’s design for covenant companionship, while Proverbs 18:22 and 19:14 call a prudent spouse a gift from the Lord. Believers should seek someone who shares faith and walks under Christ’s lordship, heeding 2 Corinthians 6:14. Psalms 37:4 and Philippians 4:19 encourage contentment and confidence in God’s provision. Love should be marked by faithfulness, courage, and godly character, as Proverbs 31:10 and 12:4 portray.

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  • Proverbs 18:22

    Whoever finds a wife finds a good thing, And obtains favor of Yahweh.

  • Genesis 2:24

    Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh.

  • 2 Corinthians 6:14

    Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?

  • Psalms 37:4

    Also delight yourself in Yahweh, And he will give you the desires of your heart.

  • Genesis 2:18

    Yahweh God said, "It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper suitable for him."

  • Philippians 4:19

    My God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus.

  • 1 John 4:18

    There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear, because fear has punishment. He who fears is not made perfect in love.

  • Proverbs 31:10

    Who can find a worthy woman? For her price is far above rubies.

  • Proverbs 19:14

    House and riches are an inheritance from fathers, But a prudent wife is from Yahweh.

  • Proverbs 12:4

    A worthy woman is the crown of her husband, But a disgraceful wife is as rottenness in his bones.

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