What does the Bible say about first lady of the church?
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The Bible does not establish the office or title of “first lady of the church,” but it honors godly women who serve Christ and his people with faithful character. Proverbs 31:10, 25, and 31 praise a woman whose strength, wisdom, diligence, and fear of the Lord bear good fruit. Scripture teaches that Christ is the head of the church, not any pastor or spouse, as 1 Corinthians 11:3 reminds us. While elders must meet the qualifications of 1 Timothy 3:1-16, Titus 2:2-4 calls mature women to disciple younger women. Every believer is to display the Spirit’s fruit in Galatians 5:22-24 and serve humbly for God’s glory.
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- Proverbs 31:31 14 votes
Give her of the fruit of her hands! Let her works praise her in the gates!
- Proverbs 31:10 7 votes
Who can find a worthy woman? For her value is far above rubies.
- 1 Corinthians 11:3 6 votes
But I would have you know that the head of every man is Christ, and the head of the woman is man, and the head of Christ is God.
- Proverbs 31:25 5 votes
Strength and dignity are her clothing. She laughs at the time to come.
- 1 Timothy 3:1-16 5 votes
This is a faithful saying: someone who seeks to be an overseer desires a good work. The overseer therefore must be without reproach, the husband of one wife, temperate, sensible, modest, hospitable, good at teaching; not a drinker, not violent, not greedy for money, but gentle, not quarrelsome, not covetous; one who rules his own house well, having children in subjection with all reverence; (for how could someone who doesn’t know how to rule his own house take care of God’s assembly?) not a new convert, lest being puffed up he fall into the same condemnation as the devil. Moreover he must have good testimony from those who are outside, to avoid falling into reproach and the snare of the devil. Servants, in the same way, must be reverent, not double-tongued, not addicted to much wine, not greedy for money, holding the mystery of the faith in a pure conscience. Let them also first be tested; then let them serve if they are blameless. Their wives in the same way must be reverent, not slanderers, temperate, and faithful in all things. Let servants be husbands of one wife, ruling their children and their own houses well. For those who have served well gain for themselves a good standing and great boldness in the faith which is in Christ Jesus. These things I write to you, hoping to come to you shortly, but if I wait long, that you may know how men ought to behave themselves in God’s house, which is the assembly of the living God, the pillar and ground of the truth. Without controversy, the mystery of godliness is great: God was revealed in the flesh, justified in the spirit, seen by angels, preached among the nations, believed on in the world, and received up in glory.
- Isaiah 62:3 5 votes
You will also be a crown of beauty in Yahweh’s hand, and a royal diadem in your God’s hand.
- Titus 2:2-4 4 votes
that older men should be temperate, sensible, sober minded, sound in faith, in love, and in perseverance, and that older women likewise be reverent in behavior, not slanderers nor enslaved to much wine, teachers of that which is good, that they may train the young wives to love their husbands, to love their children,
- Galatians 5:22-24 3 votes
But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faith, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law. Those who belong to Christ have crucified the flesh with its passions and lusts.
- 1 John 1:1 3 votes
That which was from the beginning, that which we have heard, that which we have seen with our eyes, that which we saw, and our hands touched, concerning the Word of life
- John 9:4 2 votes
I must work the works of him who sent me while it is day. The night is coming, when no one can work.
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