What does the Bible say about friends?
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The Bible teaches that faithful friendship is a gift of God, marked by steadfast love, wise influence, mutual help, and ultimately modeled by Christ. Proverbs 17:17 and Ecclesiastes 4:10 commend friends who remain present in adversity and help one another rise. Proverbs 13:20 and 1 Corinthians 15:33 warn that companions shape our character, calling believers to seek wise, godly fellowship. Proverbs 27:17 shows that true friends sharpen one another through loving truth. Yet human friendship can fail, as Psalms 41:9 laments. Jesus is the highest pattern and provision: in John 15:13-15, He calls His obedient disciples friends and proves His love by laying down His life for them.
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- John 15:13
Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends.
- Ecclesiastes 4:10
For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow; but woe to him who is alone when he falls, and doesn't have another to lift him up.
- Proverbs 18:24
A man of many companions may be ruined, But there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.
- Proverbs 17:17
A friend loves at all times; And a brother is born for adversity.
- Proverbs 13:20
One who walks with wise men grows wise, But a companion of fools suffers harm.
- 1 Corinthians 15:33
Don't be deceived! "Evil companionships corrupt good morals."
- Proverbs 27:17
Iron sharpens iron; So a man sharpens his friend's countenance.
- John 15:15
No longer do I call you servants, for the servant doesn't know what his lord does. But I have called you friends, for everything that I heard from my Father, I have made known to you.
- John 15:14
You are my friends, if you do whatever I command you.
- Psalms 41:9
Yes, my own familiar friend, in whom I trusted, Who ate bread with me, Has lifted up his heel against me.
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- Jesus calls his disciples by this term John 15:14; John 15:15
- FALSE FRIENDS
- Instances of Pharaoh’s butler was false to Joseph Genesis 40:23
- Delilah was false to Samson Judges 16:1-20
- The Ephraimite’s wife Judges 19:1; Judges 19:2
- David was false to Joab 1 Kings 2:5; 1 Kings 2:6
- David was false to Uriah 2 Samuel 11
- Ahithophel was false to David 2 Samuel 15:12
- David’s friends were false to David Psalms 35:11-16; Psalms 41:9; Psalms 55:12-14; Psalms 55:20; Psalms 55:21; Psalms 88:8; Psalms 88:18
- Judas Iscariot Matthew 26:48; Matthew 26:49
- Jesus’ disciples ran away Matthew 26:56; Matthew 26:58
- See HYPOCRISY
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