What does the Bible say about honor your husband?

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The Bible calls a wife to honor her husband through respectful love, faithful support, and godly character, while never requiring her to sin or endure abuse. Ephesians 5:33 and Colossians 3:18 place a wife's respect within a marriage ordered by devotion to Christ. Proverbs 12:4 and Proverbs 31:10-12 praise the wife whose faithfulness strengthens her husband and household. First Peter 3:1-5 commends a gentle, quiet spirit and hope in God, especially when a husband is spiritually resistant. Yet husbands are equally commanded to love, understand, and honor their wives as fellow heirs of grace in 1 Peter 3:7. Marriage therefore reflects mutual covenant service under Christ's lordship.

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  • 1 Peter 3:1-22 6 votes

    [1] In like manner, wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; so that, even if any don't obey the Word, they may be won by the behavior of their wives without a word; [2] seeing your pure behavior in fear. [3] Let your beauty be not just the outward adorning of braiding the hair, and of wearing jewels of gold, or of putting on fine clothing; [4] but in the hidden person of the heart, in the incorruptible adornment of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God very precious. [5] For this is how the holy women before, who hoped in God, also adorned themselves, being in subjection to their own husbands: [6] as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord, whose children you now are, if you do well, and are not put in fear by any terror. [7] You husbands, in like manner, live with your wives according to knowledge, giving honor to the woman, as to the weaker vessel, as being also joint heirs of the grace of life; that your prayers may not be hindered. [8] Finally, be all like-minded, compassionate, loving as brothers, tenderhearted, courteous, [9] not rendering evil for evil, or reviling for reviling; but instead blessing; knowing that to this were you called, that you may inherit a blessing. [10] For, "He who would love life, And see good days, Let him keep his tongue from evil, And his lips from speaking deceit. [11] Let him turn away from evil, and do good. Let him seek peace, and pursue it. [12] For the eyes of the Lord are on the righteous, And his ears open to their prayer; But the face of the Lord is against those who do evil." [13] Now who is he who will harm you, if you become imitators of that which is good? [14] But even if you should suffer for righteousness' sake, you are blessed. "Don't fear what they fear, neither be troubled." [15] But sanctify the Lord God in your hearts; and always be ready to give an answer to everyone who asks you a reason concerning the hope that is in you, with humility and fear: [16] having a good conscience; that, while you are spoken against as evildoers, they may be disappointed who curse your good manner of life in Christ. [17] For it is better, if the will of God should so will, that you suffer for doing well than for doing evil. [18] Because Christ also suffered for sins once, the righteous for the unrighteous, that he might bring you to God; being put to death in the flesh, but made alive in the spirit; [19] in which he also went and preached to the spirits in prison, [20] who before were disobedient, when God waited patiently in the days of Noah, while the ark was being built. In it, few, that is, eight souls, were saved through water. [21] This is a symbol of baptism, which now saves you-- not the putting away of the filth of the flesh, but the answer of a good conscience toward God, through the resurrection of Jesus Christ, [22] who is at the right hand of God, having gone into heaven, angels and authorities and powers being made subject to him.

  • Proverbs 12:4 5 votes

    A worthy woman is the crown of her husband, But a disgraceful wife is as rottenness in his bones.

  • Ephesians 5:33 5 votes

    Nevertheless each of you must also love his own wife even as himself; and let the wife see that she respects her husband.

  • Colossians 3:18 4 votes

    Wives, be in subjection to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord.

  • Proverbs 31:10-12 4 votes

    [10] Who can find a worthy woman? For her price is far above rubies. [11] The heart of her husband trusts in her. He shall have no lack of gain. [12] She does him good, and not harm, All the days of her life.

  • Proverbs 21:19 3 votes

    It is better to dwell in a desert land, Than with a contentious and fretful woman.

  • Titus 2:4 3 votes

    that they may train the young women to love their husbands, to love their children,

  • 1 Peter 3:7 3 votes

    You husbands, in like manner, live with your wives according to knowledge, giving honor to the woman, as to the weaker vessel, as being also joint heirs of the grace of life; that your prayers may not be hindered.

  • 1 Corinthians 7:3 3 votes

    Let the husband render to his wife the affection owed her, and likewise also the wife to her husband.

  • 1 Peter 3:3-5 2 votes

    [3] Let your beauty be not just the outward adorning of braiding the hair, and of wearing jewels of gold, or of putting on fine clothing; [4] but in the hidden person of the heart, in the incorruptible adornment of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God very precious. [5] For this is how the holy women before, who hoped in God, also adorned themselves, being in subjection to their own husbands:

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