What does the Bible say about long distance relationships?
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The Bible teaches that separation does not prevent Christians from loving faithfully, praying earnestly, and trusting God to sustain relationships according to his wise will. First Corinthians 13:4-7 calls love patient, kind, enduring, and hopeful, qualities especially needed when people are apart. Colossians 2:5 and Philippians 1:3 show that believers can remain united in spirit and affection despite distance. Genesis 31:49 reminds us that the Lord watches over those separated from one another, while Joshua 1:9 and Proverbs 3:5-8 direct anxious hearts to God’s presence and guidance. Couples should pray together, communicate truthfully, seek support from the church, and entrust their future to Christ.
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- 1 Corinthians 13:7
bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
- Colossians 2:5
For though I am absent in the flesh, yet am I with you in the spirit, rejoicing and seeing your order, and the steadfastness of your faith in Christ.
- 1 Corinthians 13:4-7
[4] Love is patient and is kind; love doesn't envy. Love doesn't brag, is not proud, [5] doesn't behave itself inappropriately, doesn't seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; [6] doesn't rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; [7] bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
- Genesis 31:49
and Mizpah, for he said, "Yahweh watch between me and you, when we are absent one from another.
- Joshua 1:9
Haven't I commanded you? Be strong and of good courage; don't be afraid, neither be dismayed: for Yahweh your God is with you wherever you go.
- Ecclesiastes 4:9-12
[9] Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their labor. [10] For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow; but woe to him who is alone when he falls, and doesn't have another to lift him up. [11] Again, if two lie together, then they have warmth; but how can one keep warm alone? [12] If a man prevails against one who is alone, two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken.
- Matthew 18:19
Again, assuredly I tell you, that if two of you will agree on earth concerning anything that they will ask, it will be done for them by my Father who is in heaven.
- Proverbs 3:5-8
[5] Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, And don't lean on your own understanding. [6] In all your ways acknowledge him, And he will direct your paths. [7] Don't be wise in your own eyes. Fear Yahweh, and depart from evil. [8] It will be health to your body, And nourishment to your bones.
- Philippians 1:3
I thank my God whenever I remember you,
- Luke 18:1
He also spoke a parable to them that they must always pray, and not give up,
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