What does the Bible say about loving your children?

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The Bible says that loving children is a God-given calling expressed through faithful care, patient discipline, tender instruction, and trust in the Lord who ultimately saves and sustains them. Children are a heritage from the Lord, not possessions to be neglected or provoked (Psalms 127:3-5; Ephesians 6:4). Parents are called to train them in wisdom and godliness, correcting them with loving purpose rather than harshness (Proverbs 22:6; Proverbs 13:24). Love bears, hopes, and endures, reflecting the self-giving love God showed in giving His Son (1 Corinthians 13:4-7; John 3:16). Even where human parents fail, the Lord remains a faithful Father (Psalms 27:10).

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  • Ephesians 6:4

    You fathers, don't provoke your children to wrath, but nurture them in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.

  • Proverbs 22:6

    Train up a child in the way he should go, And when he is old he will not depart from it.

  • Psalms 127:3-5

    [3] Behold, children are a heritage of Yahweh. The fruit of the womb is his reward. [4] As arrows in the hand of a mighty man, So are the children of youth. [5] Happy is the man who has his quiver full of them. They won't be disappointed when they speak with their enemies in the gate.

  • 1 Corinthians 13:4-7

    [4] Love is patient and is kind; love doesn't envy. Love doesn't brag, is not proud, [5] doesn't behave itself inappropriately, doesn't seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; [6] doesn't rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; [7] bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

  • 1 Timothy 5:8

    But if anyone doesn't provide for his own, and especially his own household, he has denied the faith, and is worse than an unbeliever.

  • Psalms 27:10

    When my father and my mother forsake me, Then Yahweh will take me up.

  • Proverbs 13:24

    One who spares the rod hates his son, But one who loves him is careful to discipline him.

  • John 3:16

    For God so loved the world, that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish, but have eternal life.

  • Colossians 3:20

    Children, obey your parents in all things, for this pleases the Lord.

  • 1 Corinthians 13:13

    But now faith, hope, and love remain--these three. The greatest of these is love.

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