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What does the Bible say about parental alienation?

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The Bible does not name parental alienation directly, but it calls families to faithful care, truthful love, patient forgiveness, and peace rather than hostility, manipulation, or revenge. Ephesians 6:4 charges parents to nurture children without provoking them, while 1 Timothy 5:4 and 5:8 stress family responsibility and care. Proverbs 22:6 and 13:24 commend purposeful, loving discipline, not harshness or contempt. Where relationships have been wounded, Romans 12:17-21 and Luke 6:27-35 call believers to resist retaliation, seek peace where possible, and entrust judgment to God. Colossians 3:13 urges forgiveness, yet forgiveness does not require denying sin or ignoring genuine danger; wise pastoral help and appropriate protection may be needed.

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  • Psalms 109:2-7

    [2] For they have opened the mouth of the wicked and the mouth of deceit against me. They have spoken to me with a lying tongue. [3] They have also surrounded me with words of hatred, And fought against me without a cause. [4] In return for my love, they are my adversaries; But I am in prayer. [5] They have rewarded me evil for good, And hatred for my love. [6] Set a wicked man over him. Let an adversary stand at his right hand. [7] When he is judged, let him come forth guilty. Let his prayer be turned into sin.

  • Romans 12:17-21

    [17] Repay no one evil for evil. Respect what is honorable in the sight of all men. [18] If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men. [19] Don't seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God's wrath. For it is written, "Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord." [20] Therefore "If your enemy is hungry, feed him. If he is thirsty, give him a drink. For in doing so, you will heap coals of fire on his head." [21] Don't be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.

  • 1 Timothy 5:8

    But if anyone doesn't provide for his own, and especially his own household, he has denied the faith, and is worse than an unbeliever.

  • Ephesians 6:4

    You fathers, don't provoke your children to wrath, but nurture them in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.

  • Luke 6:27-35

    [27] "But I tell you who hear: love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, [28] bless those who curse you, and pray for those who mistreat you. [29] To him who strikes you on the cheek, offer also the other; and from him who takes away your cloak, don't withhold your coat also. [30] Give to everyone who asks you, and don't ask him who takes away your goods to give them back again. [31] "As you would like people to do to you, do exactly so to them. [32] If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? For even sinners love those who love them. [33] If you do good to those who do good to you, what credit is that to you? For even sinners do the same. [34] If you lend to those from whom you hope to receive, what credit is that to you? Even sinners lend to sinners, to receive back as much. [35] But love your enemies, and do good, and lend, expecting nothing back; and your reward will be great, and you will be children of the Most High; for he is kind toward the unthankful and evil.

  • Colossians 3:13

    bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do.

  • Proverbs 13:24

    One who spares the rod hates his son, But one who loves him is careful to discipline him.

  • 1 Timothy 5:4

    But if any widow has children or grandchildren, let them learn first to show piety towards their own family, and to repay their parents, for this is acceptable in the sight of God.

  • Proverbs 22:6

    Train up a child in the way he should go, And when he is old he will not depart from it.

  • James 2:9

    But if you show partiality, you commit sin, being convicted by the law as transgressors.

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