What does the Bible say about saying i love you?
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The Bible teaches that saying “I love you” is meaningful when it flows from true, Christlike love shown in faithfulness, sacrifice, and obedience. God first reveals His love by valuing and redeeming His people, as Isaiah 43:4 declares, and His love gives believers confidence and hope. First Corinthians 13:4-8 describes love not as mere affection or words, but as patient, kind, humble, enduring service. Jesus calls His disciples to love one another so that the world may recognize them as His (John 13:35), and He asks Peter, “Do you love me?” in John 21:15, linking love for Christ with caring for His people. Our words should therefore honestly express a life shaped by God’s love, for God is love (1 John 4:8).
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- Isaiah 43:4 20 votes
Since you have been precious and honored in my sight, and I have loved you, therefore I will give people in your place, and nations instead of your life.
- 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 19 votes
Love is patient and is kind. Love doesn’t envy. Love doesn’t brag, is not proud, doesn’t behave itself inappropriately, doesn’t seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn’t rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, and endures all things. Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will be done away with. Where there are various languages, they will cease. Where there is knowledge, it will be done away with.
- Psalms 91:14-16 8 votes
“Because he has set his love on me, therefore I will deliver him. I will set him on high, because he has known my name. He will call on me, and I will answer him. I will be with him in trouble. I will deliver him, and honor him. I will satisfy him with long life, and show him my salvation.”
- Psalms 18:1 6 votes
I love you, Yahweh, my strength.
- John 21:15 6 votes
So when they had eaten their breakfast, Jesus said to Simon Peter, “Simon, son of Jonah, do you love me more than these?” He said to him, “Yes, Lord; you know that I have affection for you.” He said to him, “Feed my lambs.”
- Psalms 116:1-2 6 votes
I love Yahweh, because he listens to my voice, and my cries for mercy. Because he has turned his ear to me, therefore I will call on him as long as I live.
- 1 John 4:8 5 votes
He who doesn’t love doesn’t know God, for God is love.
- John 13:35 5 votes
By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.”
- Genesis 2:24 5 votes
Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh.
- Jeremiah 29:11 4 votes
For I know the thoughts that I think toward you,” says Yahweh, “thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future.
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