What does the Bible say about temper?
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The Bible teaches that believers should put away sinful anger and cultivate self-control, patience, and gentleness through God’s grace. James 1:19-20 calls us to be quick to hear, slow to speak, and slow to anger, since human wrath does not produce God’s righteousness. Proverbs commends the one who rules his spirit and warns that harsh words, quick tempers, and uncontrolled outbursts stir up conflict. Ephesians 4:31-32 and Colossians 3:8 urge Christians to lay aside bitterness, wrath, malice, and abusive speech, replacing them with kindness, tenderheartedness, and forgiveness. This is not mere self-improvement: Christ forgives and renews His people, enabling them to answer softly and pursue peace.
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- James 1:19-20
[19] So, then, my beloved brothers, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, and slow to anger; [20] for the anger of man doesn't produce the righteousness of God.
- Ephesians 4:31-32
[31] Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander, be put away from you, with all malice. [32] And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you.
- Proverbs 16:32
One who is slow to anger is better than the mighty; One who rules his spirit, than he who takes a city.
- Proverbs 29:11
A fool vents all of his anger, But a wise man brings himself under control.
- Proverbs 15:1
A gentle answer turns away wrath, But a harsh word stirs up anger.
- Colossians 3:8
but now you also put them all away: anger, wrath, malice, slander, and shameful speaking out of your mouth.
- Proverbs 14:17
He who is quick to become angry will commit folly, And a crafty man is hated.
- Proverbs 15:18
A wrathful man stirs up contention, But one who is slow to anger appeases strife.
- Psalms 37:8
Cease from anger, and forsake wrath. Don't fret, it leads only to evildoing.
- Proverbs 15:1-33
[1] A gentle answer turns away wrath, But a harsh word stirs up anger. [2] The tongue of the wise commends knowledge, But the mouth of fools gush out folly. [3] Yahweh's eyes are everywhere, Keeping watch on the evil and the good. [4] A gentle tongue is a tree of life, But deceit in it crushes the spirit. [5] A fool despises his father's correction, But he who heeds reproof shows prudence. [6] In the house of the righteous is much treasure, But the income of the wicked brings trouble. [7] The lips of the wise spread knowledge; Not so with the heart of fools. [8] The sacrifice made by the wicked is an abomination to Yahweh, But the prayer of the upright is his delight. [9] The way of the wicked is an abomination to Yahweh, But he loves him who follows after righteousness. [10] There is stern discipline for one who forsakes the way: Whoever hates reproof shall die. [11] Sheol and Abaddon are before Yahweh-- How much more then the hearts of the children of men! [12] A scoffer doesn't love to be reproved; He will not go to the wise. [13] A glad heart makes a cheerful face; But an aching heart breaks the spirit. [14] The heart of one who has understanding seeks knowledge, But the mouths of fools feed on folly. [15] All the days of the afflicted are wretched, But one who has a cheerful heart enjoys a continual feast. [16] Better is little, with the fear of Yahweh, Than great treasure with trouble. [17] Better is a dinner of herbs, where love is, Than a fattened calf with hatred. [18] A wrathful man stirs up contention, But one who is slow to anger appeases strife. [19] The way of the sluggard is like a thorn patch, But the path of the upright is a highway. [20] A wise son makes a father glad, But a foolish man despises his mother. [21] Folly is joy to one who is void of wisdom, But a man of understanding keeps his way straight. [22] Where there is no counsel, plans fail; But in a multitude of counselors they are established. [23] Joy comes to a man with the reply of his mouth. How good is a word at the right time! [24] The path of life leads upward for the wise, To keep him from going downward to Sheol. [25] Yahweh will uproot the house of the proud, But he will keep the widow's borders intact. [26] Yahweh detests the thoughts of the wicked, But the thoughts of the pure are pleasing. [27] He who is greedy for gain troubles his own house, But he who hates bribes will live. [28] The heart of the righteous weighs answers, But the mouth of the wicked gushes out evil. [29] Yahweh is far from the wicked, But he hears the prayer of the righteous. [30] The light of the eyes rejoices the heart. Good news gives health to the bones. [31] The ear that listens to reproof lives, And will be at home among the wise. [32] He who refuses correction despises his own soul, But he who listens to reproof gets understanding. [33] The fear of Yahweh teaches wisdom. Before honor is humility.
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