What does the Bible say about when to speak?
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The Bible teaches that we should speak thoughtfully, graciously, and truthfully, letting love for God and neighbor govern both our words and our silence. James 1:19 calls believers to be quick to hear, slow to speak, and slow to anger, while Proverbs 15:28 commends the righteous person who considers how to answer. Because all stumble in speech, as James 3:2 says, we need humility and dependence on the Holy Spirit. Colossians 4:6 urges gracious, fitting words, and Proverbs 12:18 warns that reckless speech wounds while wise speech heals. Christians should therefore speak when words will serve truth, peace, correction, comfort, or gospel witness, and remain silent when haste, pride, or anger would rule the tongue.
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- James 1:19
So, then, my beloved brothers, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, and slow to anger;
- Colossians 4:6
Let your speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer each one.
- Proverbs 12:18
There is one who speaks rashly like the piercing of a sword, But the tongue of the wise heals.
- James 3:2
For in many things we all stumble. If anyone doesn't stumble in word, the same is a perfect man, able to bridle the whole body also.
- Proverbs 15:28
The heart of the righteous weighs answers, But the mouth of the wicked gushes out evil.
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