What does the Bible say about wives?
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The Bible presents wives as equal heirs of God’s grace, called to honor Christ within marriage through faithful, respectful, and godly character. Ephesians 5:22-33 places a wife’s submission within the larger pattern of mutual devotion to Christ, while commanding husbands to love sacrificially as Christ loves the church. Proverbs 31:10 praises a capable, wise, industrious woman whose fear of the Lord gives her lasting beauty and worth. First Peter 3:1-5 commends a gentle, pure, Godward spirit, and 1 Peter 3:7 requires husbands to show understanding and honor to their wives. Marriage is therefore a covenant of love, service, faithfulness, and shared dependence on God’s grace.
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- Proverbs 31:10
Who can find a worthy woman? For her price is far above rubies.
- Ephesians 5:22-33
[22] Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord. [23] For the husband is the head of the wife, and Christ also is the head of the assembly, being himself the savior of the body. [24] But as the assembly is subject to Christ, so let the wives also be to their own husbands in everything. [25] Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it; [26] that he might sanctify it, having cleansed it by the washing of water with the word, [27] that he might present the assembly to himself gloriously, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. [28] Even so ought husbands also to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself. [29] For no man ever hated his own flesh; but nourishes and cherishes it, even as the Lord also does the assembly; [30] because we are members of his body, of his flesh and bones. [31] "For this cause a man will leave his father and mother, and will be joined to his wife. The two will become one flesh." [32] This mystery is great, but I speak concerning Christ and of the assembly. [33] Nevertheless each of you must also love his own wife even as himself; and let the wife see that she respects her husband.
- 1 Peter 3:7
You husbands, in like manner, live with your wives according to knowledge, giving honor to the woman, as to the weaker vessel, as being also joint heirs of the grace of life; that your prayers may not be hindered.
- Proverbs 21:19
It is better to dwell in a desert land, Than with a contentious and fretful woman.
- Ephesians 5:33
Nevertheless each of you must also love his own wife even as himself; and let the wife see that she respects her husband.
- Ephesians 5:28
Even so ought husbands also to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself.
- Ephesians 5:22
Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord.
- Ephesians 5:25
Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it;
- 1 Peter 3:1-5
[1] In like manner, wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; so that, even if any don't obey the Word, they may be won by the behavior of their wives without a word; [2] seeing your pure behavior in fear. [3] Let your beauty be not just the outward adorning of braiding the hair, and of wearing jewels of gold, or of putting on fine clothing; [4] but in the hidden person of the heart, in the incorruptible adornment of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God very precious. [5] For this is how the holy women before, who hoped in God, also adorned themselves, being in subjection to their own husbands:
- Colossians 3:19
Husbands, love your wives, and don't be bitter against them.
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- Not to be selected from among the ungodly Genesis 24:3; Genesis 26:34; Genesis 26:35; Genesis 28:1
- Duties of, to their husbands
- To love them Titus 2:4
- To reverence them Ephesians 5:33
- To be faithful to them 1 Corinthians 7:3-5; 1 Corinthians 7:10
- To be subject to them Genesis 3:16; Ephesians 5:22; Ephesians 5:24; 1 Peter 3:1
- To obey them 1 Corinthians 14:34; Titus 2:5
- To remain with them for life Romans 7:2; Romans 7:3
- Should be adorned
- Not with ornaments 1 Timothy 2:9; 1 Peter 3:3
- With modesty and sobriety 1 Timothy 2:9
- With a meek and quiet spirit 1 Peter 3:4; 1 Peter 3:5
- With good works 1 Timothy 2:10; 1 Timothy 5:10
- Good
- Are from the Lord Proverbs 19:14
- Are a token of the favour of God Proverbs 18:22
- Are a blessing to husbands Proverbs 12:4; Proverbs 31:10; Proverbs 31:12
- Bring honour on husbands Proverbs 31:23
- Secure confidence of husbands Proverbs 31:11
- Are praised by husbands Proverbs 31:28
- Are diligent and prudent Proverbs 31:13-27
- Are benevolent to the poor Proverbs 31:20
- Duty of, to unbelieving husbands 1 Corinthians 7:13; 1 Corinthians 7:14; 1 Corinthians 7:16; 1 Peter 3:1; 1 Peter 3:2
- Should be silent in the Churches 1 Corinthians 14:34
- Should seek religious instruction from their husbands 1 Corinthians 14:35
- Of ministers should be exemplary 1 Timothy 3:11
- Good - Exemplified
- Wife of Manoah Judges 13:10
- Orpah and Ruth Ruth 1:4; Ruth 1:8
- Abigail 1 Samuel 25:3
- Esther Esther 2:15-17
- Elizabeth Luke 1:6
- Priscilla Acts 18:2; Acts 18:26
- Sarah 1 Peter 3:6
- Bad - Exemplified
- Samson’s wife Judges 14:15-17
- Michal 2 Samuel 6:16
- Jezebel 1 Kings 21:25
- Zeresh Esther 5:14
- Job’s wife Job 2:9
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