What does the Bible say about young marriage?
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The Bible honors marriage as a good and holy covenant, but it does not prescribe one universal age for entering it, calling believers instead to maturity, chastity, wisdom, and faithful devotion to Christ. First Timothy 4:12 shows that youth need not prevent godly character and responsible service. Proverbs 18:22 commends finding a wife as the Lord's favor, while 1 Corinthians 7:9 and 7:36-38 counsel marriage where self-control is lacking and where it can be pursued honorably. Marriage joins a man and woman in a lifelong one-flesh covenant, as Matthew 19:4-6 teaches. Christians should marry in the Lord, avoiding unequal spiritual yokes, and seek the sacrificial love, submission, purity, and mutual honor described in Ephesians 5:22-33 and 1 Peter 3:1-7.
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- 1 Timothy 4:12 8 votes
Let no man despise your youth; but be an example to those who believe, in word, in your way of life, in love, in spirit, in faith, and in purity.
- Proverbs 18:22 7 votes
Whoever finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor of Yahweh.
- 1 Corinthians 7:9 6 votes
But if they don’t have self-control, let them marry. For it’s better to marry than to burn with passion.
- Song of Solomon 8:4 6 votes
I adjure you, daughters of Jerusalem, that you not stir up, nor awaken love, until it so desires.
- Ephesians 5:22-33 6 votes
Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the assembly, being himself the savior of the body. But as the assembly is subject to Christ, so let the wives also be to their own husbands in everything. Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly and gave himself up for her, that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, that he might present the assembly to himself gloriously, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing, but that she should be holy and without defect. Even so husbands also ought to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself. For no man ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, even as the Lord also does the assembly, because we are members of his body, of his flesh and bones. “For this cause a man will leave his father and mother and will be joined to his wife. Then the two will become one flesh.” This mystery is great, but I speak concerning Christ and the assembly. Nevertheless each of you must also love his own wife even as himself; and let the wife see that she respects her husband.
- 1 Corinthians 7:36-38 5 votes
But if any man thinks that he is behaving inappropriately toward his virgin, if she is past the flower of her age, and if need so requires, let him do what he desires. He doesn’t sin. Let them marry. But he who stands steadfast in his heart, having no urgency, but has power over his own will, and has determined in his own heart to keep his own virgin, does well. So then both he who gives his own virgin in marriage does well, and he who doesn’t give her in marriage does better.
- 2 Corinthians 6:14 5 votes
Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship do righteousness and iniquity have? Or what fellowship does light have with darkness?
- Matthew 19:4-6 5 votes
He answered, “Haven’t you read that he who made them from the beginning made them male and female, and said, ‘For this cause a man shall leave his father and mother, and shall be joined to his wife; and the two shall become one flesh?’ So that they are no more two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, don’t let man tear apart.”
- 1 Timothy 5:14 4 votes
I desire therefore that the younger widows marry, bear children, rule the household, and give no occasion to the adversary for insulting.
- 1 Peter 3:1-7 4 votes
In the same way, wives, be in subjection to your own husbands, so that, even if any don’t obey the Word, they may be won by the behavior of their wives without a word, seeing your pure behavior in fear. Let your beauty come not from the outward adorning of braiding your hair, and of wearing gold ornaments or of putting on fine clothing, but from the hidden person of the heart, in the incorruptible adornment of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is very precious in God’s sight. For this is how in the past the holy women who hoped in God also adorned themselves, being in subjection to their own husbands. So Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord, whose children you now are if you do well and are not put in fear by any terror. You husbands, in the same way, live with your wives according to knowledge, giving honor to the woman as to the weaker vessel, as also being joint heirs of the grace of life, that your prayers may not be hindered.
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