What does the Bible say about angry women?
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The Bible teaches that anger, whether in women or men, must be governed by God’s wisdom, love, and self-control, while contentious speech and habits wound households and relationships. James 1:19-20 calls believers to be quick to hear, slow to speak, and slow to anger, because human anger does not produce God’s righteousness. Proverbs 21:9, 21:19, 25:24, and 27:15 frankly warn of the misery caused by persistent quarrelsomeness in the home, while Proverbs 15:1 commends a gentle answer that turns away wrath. Yet Scripture’s aim is not merely outward quietness: 1 Corinthians 13:1-13 calls all Christians to patient, kind love, and Titus 2:3-5 urges godly women to model reverent, faithful character.
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- Proverbs 21:9
It is better to dwell in the corner of the housetop, Than to share a house with a contentious woman.
- James 1:19-20
[19] So, then, my beloved brothers, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, and slow to anger; [20] for the anger of man doesn't produce the righteousness of God.
- Proverbs 21:19
It is better to dwell in a desert land, Than with a contentious and fretful woman.
- 1 Corinthians 13:1-13
[1] If I speak with the languages of men and of angels, but don't have love, I have become sounding brass, or a clanging cymbal. [2] If I have the gift of prophecy, and know all mysteries and all knowledge; and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but don't have love, I am nothing. [3] If I dole out all my goods to feed the poor, and if I give my body to be burned, but don't have love, it profits me nothing. [4] Love is patient and is kind; love doesn't envy. Love doesn't brag, is not proud, [5] doesn't behave itself inappropriately, doesn't seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; [6] doesn't rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; [7] bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. [8] Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will be done away with. Where there are various languages, they will cease. Where there is knowledge, it will be done away with. [9] For we know in part, and we prophesy in part; [10] but when that which is complete has come, then that which is partial will be done away with. [11] When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I felt as a child, I thought as a child. Now that I have become a man, I have put away childish things. [12] For now we see in a mirror, dimly, but then face to face. Now I know in part, but then I will know fully, even as I was also fully known. [13] But now faith, hope, and love remain--these three. The greatest of these is love.
- Proverbs 27:15
A continual dropping on a rainy day And a contentious wife are alike:
- Proverbs 17:1
Better is a dry morsel with quietness, Than a house full of feasting with strife.
- Proverbs 25:24
It is better to dwell in the corner of the housetop, Than to share a house with a contentious woman.
- Proverbs 15:1
A gentle answer turns away wrath, But a harsh word stirs up anger.
- 1 Peter 3:1-6
[1] In like manner, wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; so that, even if any don't obey the Word, they may be won by the behavior of their wives without a word; [2] seeing your pure behavior in fear. [3] Let your beauty be not just the outward adorning of braiding the hair, and of wearing jewels of gold, or of putting on fine clothing; [4] but in the hidden person of the heart, in the incorruptible adornment of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God very precious. [5] For this is how the holy women before, who hoped in God, also adorned themselves, being in subjection to their own husbands: [6] as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord, whose children you now are, if you do well, and are not put in fear by any terror.
- Titus 2:3-5
[3] and that older women likewise be reverent in behavior, not slanderers nor enslaved to much wine, teachers of that which is good; [4] that they may train the young women to love their husbands, to love their children, [5] to be sober-minded, chaste, workers at home, kind, being in subjection to their own husbands, that God's word may not be blasphemed.
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