What does the Bible say about forgiveness in marriage?

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The Bible calls husbands and wives to forgive one another freely and repeatedly, because God has forgiven them in Christ, while also pursuing peace, faithfulness, and wise help where sin has wounded the marriage. Ephesians 4:32 and Colossians 3:13 ground marital forgiveness in God's mercy toward us, not in a spouse's deserving it. Matthew 6:14-15 and Mark 11:25 warn against cherishing a hard, unforgiving heart. Genesis 2:24 and 1 Corinthians 7:10-11 uphold the covenant permanence of marriage and encourage reconciliation. Husbands must live considerately and honor their wives, as 1 Peter 3:7 teaches. Forgiveness does not deny evil or remove the need for repentance, protection, church care, and justice.

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  • Ephesians 4:32 6 votes

    And be kind to one another, tender hearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you.

  • 1 Peter 3:7 5 votes

    You husbands, in the same way, live with your wives according to knowledge, giving honor to the woman as to the weaker vessel, as also being joint heirs of the grace of life, that your prayers may not be hindered.

  • Matthew 6:14-15 5 votes

    “For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you don’t forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.

  • 1 Corinthians 7:10-11 4 votes

    But to the married I command—not I, but the Lord—that the wife not leave her husband (but if she departs, let her remain unmarried, or else be reconciled to her husband), and that the husband not leave his wife.

  • Colossians 3:13 4 votes

    bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do.

  • Romans 12:19-21 3 votes

    Don’t seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, “Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.” Therefore “If your enemy is hungry, feed him. If he is thirsty, give him a drink; for in doing so, you will heap coals of fire on his head.” Don’t be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.

  • Mark 11:25 3 votes

    Whenever you stand praying, forgive, if you have anything against anyone; so that your Father, who is in heaven, may also forgive you your transgressions.

  • Titus 2:1-15 2 votes

    But say the things which fit sound doctrine, that older men should be temperate, sensible, sober minded, sound in faith, in love, and in perseverance, and that older women likewise be reverent in behavior, not slanderers nor enslaved to much wine, teachers of that which is good, that they may train the young wives to love their husbands, to love their children, to be sober minded, chaste, workers at home, kind, being in subjection to their own husbands, that God’s word may not be blasphemed. Likewise, exhort the younger men to be sober minded. In all things show yourself an example of good works. In your teaching, show integrity, seriousness, incorruptibility, and soundness of speech that can’t be condemned, that he who opposes you may be ashamed, having no evil thing to say about us. Exhort servants to be in subjection to their own masters and to be well-pleasing in all things, not contradicting, not stealing, but showing all good fidelity, that they may adorn the doctrine of God, our Savior, in all things. For the grace of God has appeared, bringing salvation to all men, instructing us to the intent that, denying ungodliness and worldly lusts, we would live soberly, righteously, and godly in this present age; looking for the blessed hope and appearing of the glory of our great God and Savior, Jesus Christ, who gave himself for us, that he might redeem us from all iniquity and purify for himself a people for his own possession, zealous for good works. Say these things and exhort and reprove with all authority. Let no one despise you.

  • John 20:23 2 votes

    If you forgive anyone’s sins, they have been forgiven them. If you retain anyone’s sins, they have been retained.”

  • Genesis 2:24 2 votes

    Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh.

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