What does the Bible say about past relationships?

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The Bible teaches that past relationships should be brought honestly before God, forgiven through Christ, and viewed with wisdom, repentance, and hope rather than bondage. God calls believers to confess sin and trust his cleansing grace, for 1 John 1:9 assures us of forgiveness. Ephesians 4:32 urges forgiveness toward those who have hurt us, while 1 Peter 5:7 invites us to cast lingering grief and anxiety on the Lord. Romans 12:2 calls for renewed minds and changed patterns, and Proverbs 13:20 and 1 Corinthians 15:33 warn that close companions shape our character. Where reconciliation is possible and wise, it may reflect God’s providence, as Philemon 1:15 suggests; yet believers must pursue relationships marked by faithfulness to Christ.

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  • Philemon 1:15 4 votes

    For perhaps he was therefore separated from you for a while, that you would have him forever,

  • 1 Corinthians 15:33 3 votes

    Don't be deceived! "Evil companionships corrupt good morals."

  • Romans 12:2 3 votes

    Don't be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what is the good, well-pleasing, and perfect will of God.

  • Ephesians 4:32 3 votes

    And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you.

  • Proverbs 13:20 3 votes

    One who walks with wise men grows wise, But a companion of fools suffers harm.

  • Luke 1:37 2 votes

    For everything spoken by God is possible."

  • 2 Peter 3:9 2 votes

    The Lord is not slow concerning his promise, as some count slowness; but is patient with us, not wishing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance.

  • 1 John 1:9 2 votes

    If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.

  • 1 Peter 5:7 2 votes

    casting all your worries on him, because he cares for you.

  • 2 Corinthians 6:14 2 votes

    Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?

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