What does the Bible say about wanting to be married?

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The Bible affirms the good desire for marriage while calling believers to seek it with faith, purity, wisdom, and contentment under God’s providence. Genesis 2:18 teaches that it was not good for man to be alone, and Genesis 2:24 presents marriage as a covenantal union in which a husband and wife become one flesh. Proverbs 18:22 and 19:14 describe a prudent spouse as a gracious gift from the Lord. Christians should honor marriage, pursue sexual holiness, and seek a spouse who shares genuine faith, as Hebrews 13:4, 1 Corinthians 7:2, and 2 Corinthians 6:14 teach. Marriage reflects Christ’s sacrificial love for His church in Ephesians 5:22-33.

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  • Genesis 2:18

    Yahweh God said, "It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper suitable for him."

  • Proverbs 18:22

    Whoever finds a wife finds a good thing, And obtains favor of Yahweh.

  • Hebrews 13:4

    Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled: but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers.

  • Matthew 19:4-6

    [4] He answered, "Haven't you read that he who made them from the beginning made them male and female, [5] and said, 'For this cause a man shall leave his father and mother, and shall join to his wife; and the two shall become one flesh?' [6] So that they are no more two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, don't let man tear apart."

  • 1 Corinthians 7:2

    But, because of sexual immoralities, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband.

  • Genesis 2:24

    Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh.

  • Proverbs 19:14

    House and riches are an inheritance from fathers, But a prudent wife is from Yahweh.

  • 2 Corinthians 6:14

    Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?

  • Ephesians 5:22-33

    [22] Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord. [23] For the husband is the head of the wife, and Christ also is the head of the assembly, being himself the savior of the body. [24] But as the assembly is subject to Christ, so let the wives also be to their own husbands in everything. [25] Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it; [26] that he might sanctify it, having cleansed it by the washing of water with the word, [27] that he might present the assembly to himself gloriously, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. [28] Even so ought husbands also to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself. [29] For no man ever hated his own flesh; but nourishes and cherishes it, even as the Lord also does the assembly; [30] because we are members of his body, of his flesh and bones. [31] "For this cause a man will leave his father and mother, and will be joined to his wife. The two will become one flesh." [32] This mystery is great, but I speak concerning Christ and of the assembly. [33] Nevertheless each of you must also love his own wife even as himself; and let the wife see that she respects her husband.

  • 1 Timothy 5:14

    I desire therefore that the younger widows marry, bear children, rule the household, and give no occasion to the adversary for reviling.

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